I just found out the other day I was pregnant, but truly can’t pinpoint which one is the father. The one I was seeing (not exclusively) claims that he basically can’t have kids from an accident and the other guy was a one time deal (I’ve known him for years). I’m torn between keeping the baby because I’ve always wanted to be a mom and even the thought of ending it makes me tear up. But I’m constantly being told that single moms are too hard and that they’ll grow up to hate me for not being with the father and just being 21. Can someone please give me their opinions on being in their 20s and single with a kid? I need some advice that isn’t from my friends who are in college while I’m not and pretty satisfied with giving up my “party days”.