Husband is awful to me
My husband isnt very good to me while pregnant. I am currently 13 weeks pregnant with my first baby. Im so exhausted, working full time, super sick etc. Anyways, we are also in the process of moving house. I am literally doing the best i can, packing through vomitting and trying to get our place as clean as possible for the new tenants. I am having a high risk pregnancy and need to take things really easy as per my doctors request. If i do too much i get pressure in my uterus.
I understand my husband is also under a lot of stress but he yells at me and tells me i am making him do too many tasks which are all things our landlord made mandatory at move out so we can get our $1200 damage deposit back so its non negotiable whether we do it or not. I am doing my best to help out but i cannot get on my hands and knees and scrub the floor and grout. I cannot lift heavy boxes etc. He is not understanding at all about this. I will sweep and pack and do laundry, ill clean the kitchen but i cant do any heavy labor or use any strong chemicals.
I understand a lot has fallen on him but he yells at me and we fight daily to the point im in tears. I never thought he would be like this while im pregnant. He refuses to get me any cravings. He tells me to throw up quieter because its making him gag. He laughs at me when i cry saying i being over emotional etc. He complains when he has to take me to an appointment or tells me im dramatic when i need to go to the ER due to spotting or cramping..
Hes not usually like this. It only started when i became pregnant. Im crying in my room at the moment and i know its not good for my baby boy. Ive tried talking to him and telling him im doing my best but the behavior continues. Idk what to do.
My mom offered to come help do cleaning as she understands i cant. When i told my husband this he complained about which day she could come and help. "Why is she coming on such a stupid day" im ready to tell my mom not to come at all because he is so ungrateful. My dad is helping us move and he has a broken rib. Again, my husband complained because my dad also can't lift anything heavy. I looked at him and said "where are your parents in all of this... at least mine are offering to help." His parents and siblings havent offered at all.
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