He has a girlfriend. Leave him alone

Leave it alone. He has a girlfriend, whether you think she’s the one or not.

Okay so I think if you feel like this will be nagging at you silently in your mind it might be time to be honest with him…just know you might lose him because of him having a girlfriend. I think it would be a weight lifted off your shoulders but if you do not want to lose him I’d try and maybe distance for a few and try to focus on something else to redirect those feelings a bit.

I abhorred those times! I watched my best friend go through several girlfriends… I stayed his best friend, even through horrible stories about how they went camping, and did this and that and this together *gush-gush-gush* 🙁☹️😔.. It was killing me. I figured it just wasn’t meant to be. I never said anything to him about it I figured, maybe I was put in this life just to help him through the hard times he would have…I loved him because of who he was and excepted everything that he did in his life and just tried being there for him when he got hurt. Three years later we’re married… 😶🤔 💍 Weird AF. MHO, God knows what he’s doing and he knows how to direct us ❤️ ... also also, also,.. HE Ended up making the first move. Turns out he felt the same way.. 🤪

Maybe if he becomes single in the future, you can share your feelings. But have no expectations though..

If you’re going to tell him how you feel, be ready to give him some space. It’s not fair to ask him to end his current relationship and telling him how you feel is disrespectful to the girl he’s with. But if you think it’s something you need to say my advice would be to stress that there isn’t any pressure to do anything and ask what he needs to feel comfortable. If I were his gf I wouldn’t be super comfortable with you two hanging out all the time anymore. If you respect the relationship he’s in and want to stay friends, I would wait it out until they break up (it sounds like he’s not in it for the long haul anyways). Good luck and I hope it all works out💞

I had a similar experience, years ago, I had a best friend and he started having feelings for me but I was in love with my ex, he didn't take it right and we are no longer friends, he literally ghosted me and it was a terrible experience considering we were friends since high school. Anyway if you want to tell him what you feel do it, but be ready to the possibility that things in between you won't be the same.

I honestly think it would be best if you keep it to yourself right now. Maybe try to take your mind off him by focusing on yourself. Don’t focus on getting rid of your feelings either because that just makes it worse. Instead try to focus on self love first. It really switches the attention away from him and focuses on yourself instead.

If you don’t think u will be able to get over him, tell him. If you think you are in love with him (whatever love might mean to you) tell him. If telling him will bring u peace, despite the fact he might not feel the same way back, tell him. If he was in a happy, long term, solid relationship, different story. If you don’t tell him, you will regret it for a long, long time.I’m not necessarily correct, this is just my opinion. In this world, always be kind, but not at the expense of your own heart. This advice only applies to you if you LOVE him. If it’s a crush, let go, and move on. If it’s meant to be, it will be.

I would leave it alone. For now. Let it play out. Your feeling may subside and sometimes people make great friends about are horrible as romantic partners.If it didn’t work the first time it probably won’t work the second time. Let it play out. He’s obviously conflicted and unsure what he wants. If they break up and you’re still available and feeling the same maybe slowly bring it up. But honestly if this feeling grows and keeps nagging at you and his relationship doesn’t sound like it’s working out just be honest about your own feelings. Don’t try to break them up but there’s a point where if you’re feelings grow it’s best to be honest and risk loosing him as a friend if he doesn’t feel the same. You don’t wanna sit there “friendzoned” watching them get married while you sit on your feelings. If he doesn’t feel the same move on period.