I have been seeing a therapist for the past few months regarding my anxiety and situational depression. It has escalated, so this is why I made the decision to speak to someone about it. My fiancé doesn’t seem to understand and some of his actions seem to make my anxiety worse. I understand that it’s not his job to make sure I don’t feel a certain way, but when he knows some things trigger me, he will say or do them anyway. He also won’t come with me to my therapy appointments to at least get a better understanding of what I’ve been going through. I know this can affect anyone involved, but I feel that someone I love deeply and have spent the past 6 years with, would want to help me kick this in the rear. We haven’t had sex often lately because he’s been working away from home. We had a quickie one day and that night he drank too much, which I asked him not to do, and he couldn’t stay hard doing. Being sexually frustrating is also another issue as of lately. He knows my love language and has fallen short at making me feel loved and appreciated lately. I still take care of the home, our children and our dog. We had an argument the other day, basically I told hun that I don’t feel loved or appreciated, and he told me that all I do is bitch and gripe at him. I guess I can work on certain things as well, but I feel that he doesn’t try at all, and it’s taking a toll on me physically and emotionally..