How long should you wait before telling your bf/gf the three words... I love you???

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I met my boyfriend on Facebook messenger he actually messaged me first. I waited 9 whole days to reply back to him. Well when we started talking we started vibing pretty good. We had sex 5 days after meeting. He claim he been single for awhile. I just had a baby and I wasn’t having sex. It felt amazing when we were together sexually. He’s been calling and messaging me every day. We haven’t had a bad argument. He’s laid back and cute..I like his personality and he likes mine. I feel like he’s perfect but we both scared to get hurt. We are being truthful and honest with each other...we been doing that since day 1. He left to drive trucks in Alabama he won’t be back until the end of July. I miss him dearly 😞. Before he left he told me he loved me. I said huh wait what...how? He said he will explain. He told me he really likes me and he see me and him together for along time. (Y’all I’m so scared he might hurt me). I really like him a lot. Is it possible for someone to love you within a month of dating?

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I don’t think it’s impossible, but I think true, deep love after a month would be rare. This is likely lust. At the root of things, you are still strangers. You don’t know if he fights fair, or how he handles stress, for example. You don’t know how he lives from day to day. 
I think it’s a fun thought and you should see what happens, but please keep your child separate and wait to introduce for several months, if not a year or more. Get to know each other.

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Only say it when you are ready.  My husband and I said it within a month of dating and we have been together for 16 years.  I still get those butterflies like we had just started dating and I still cant believe he chose me to spend his life with.

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my husband said it like 2 months in. my dad proposed to my mom three days after their first date

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If you love him then just tell him.

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Everyone is different .. most of the time it depends on the chemistry and how comfortable you feel with them .. just because some ppl say it at 3 months or 1 week doesn’t mean your ready and that’s okay.. if it takes you 1 1/2 to say it that’s perfectly okay .. it’s when you feel it in your heart and that you trust that person and you feel like it’s the right time … it could be 3 months or over a year .. it’s when you think the time is right .. but. I will tell you this do not tell someone you love them just because they say it if your unsure . Don’t say it until your ready !

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My wife told me she was in ln love with me after two weeks of knowing each other. Not dating, simply knowing each other. We were even officially a couple until two months later. I didn’t say it back for a couple months. But she knew and she meant it.

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Me and my husband said it after about 4 months. Been together over 5 years and married 3.5 🤍 everyone is different. When you know you know

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Been with my partner for 3 year, I told him I loved him after 2 months.. Cause I  meant it, I was instantly attracted to him, I felt safe, beautiful.. Happy. He's good looking, hardworking, loyal. The way he made me feel safe, happy I just knew he was gonna be good for me, he's home ♥️

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My husband and I met on Facebook too 😂 I added him because he was cute and he messaged me first and we just instantly hit it off. We video chatted for 5 hours that very same day, and just talked about life. About a week later we had our first date, and he just felt so familiar to me. I really felt a strong connection with him. I told him I loved him after two months of dating. I really meant it when I said it. 5 years and two babies later, I couldn’t imagine a better life. I look forward to the future with him by my side. Never felt like this for anyone. 
I think it’s possible to feel that way about someone early on, but only say it if you mean it.

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My boyfriend & I said it within about 2 months of being officially together... we met in a Facebook group & hadn’t even seen each other in person at that point (we’re long distance & Covid halted us meeting for awhile). We’ve now been together for almost 2 years.

How long should you wait before telling your bf/gf the three words... I love you???

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