Painful sex & BV 😭

I dunno what to do ladies.. or how to make things better?

After sex my vagina is always swollen, in pain

I’ve never had issues like this before and previous partners weren’t small so I’m confused to why it hurts so much with my current partner?

We don’t have really rough sex and he is gentle but afterwards and when it starts it hurts so much, it’s so embarrassing constantly going to the doctors for my complaints down below but I don’t know what to do!

I need some ointment for down below as It’s so swollen and red, and I constantly get BV.

We’re trying for a baby also so it’s so difficult to try for a baby but you need to stop him cumming inside you cos his semen is throwing off your PH.

Feel like the universe is rejecting this man. 😭😂