Is it justifiable to break up cause of the past?

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I've had a past, everyone has. I've learned from my mistakes and brought nothing but a healthy pure relationship into the one I am with a new man. I've showed him nothing but love and support and help him work on the damage his ex left him with. I said from the very beginning, I wanted to give nothing but the most healthiest healthiest he'd ever experience or have. I told  him almost everything about me that I could remember cause he deserves all of me, its not that I was hiding, but I just left the past in the past and forgot about this one thing. And it looks like I hid it because I forgot!? I forgot completely. I'm not the past, I'm not the same person from 6 months ago, and I hope my actions have showed him nothing but love.
Is it wrong for him to hold my past accountable, something I can't change. I've grown and I'm different, I don't know how to explain or show him. I haven't done or ever jeopardized our relationship, I'm not perfect but I've done nothing but show love and care for this man.

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I’m going to tell you something my therapist told me, “you never need to justify your reason for leaving a relationship.” 
So yes, it’s justified because in his mind, whatever you had done was a deal breaker for him. It is what it is and you can’t change another’s opinions or boundaries for themselves. With that said, finding someone else who can accept all of you including your past is crucial for a healthy relationship. 
Relationships are two way streets, even if you wanted nothing but healthy and happy doesn’t mean he has to feel the same and that’s okay.

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I don’t think you owe anyone every detail of your past. You’re not being dishonest just because he isn’t privy to everything. You’re allowed to keep anything to yourself that you want. 
If he can’t get over it then you gotta let him go

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You have every right to make mistakes and learn and grow from them. But no, he does not have to accept them. He has every right to end a relationship for any reason he chooses. I know it’s hurtful, but it just means that he is not the one for you. We cannot change the things we have done. We can only forgive ourselves and learn from them. We can only ask others for forgiveness and acceptance, but it is not mandatory.

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Depends. If you murdered someone he deserves to know and break up with you over that. If you cheated on an ex, he doesn't need to know that. One is a criminal offense that could affect him. The other is a poor choice that has no lasting consequences.

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You can break up with anyone, at any time, for any reason at all. 
A relationship isn't a law. You aren't forced to do it. You can leave simply because you don't care to be with someone for no reason at all

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6 months ago doesn’t count as the past to me. What was it you forgot? And what was your past?
I would leave people for their past if it was that bad. Especially only 6 months after said past

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i know u wanted to start fresh with him and u wanted to change..but you should of have never told him about ur past it wasent around his time so it really dont matter

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The only thing you can do is be your true self. If he wants to dwell on your past (a past that doesn't even involve him) then leave him there, in the past. YOU are doing what's healthy and good. If you don't want to share what's happened in your past, that's fine. If you do, that's fine. What isn't fine is him treating you differently over it. That's pretty shitty and you don't deserve that at all

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It’s always justifiable to break up, even if it’s something small or petty, if your not feeling good in the relationship it’s okay to break up. 
Personally, it would depend on the situation. If someone didn’t tell me they cheated once I’d be upset it was hidden but it wouldn’t break us. But if they where a serial cheater, and he didn’t tell me, I wouldn’t want to stay in the relationship or feel comfortable.

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I mean if you like murdered someone that’s one thing. But if it’s a normal mistake like sleeping with someone, maybe on drugs, something like that, nah. Y’all weren’t in a relationship so it isn’t relevant to him.

Is it justifiable to break up cause of the past?

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