Mom Doesn’t Care for Fiancé.

So, I recently got an engaged to my first love. My mom doesn’t really like him. My fiancé and I have been up and down in our relationship since we were 14. We’re 27 now. We were kids back then and although, yes he has broken my heart before, it was years ago and we rekindled and realized our love for one another never went away. We realized that throughout all the old past lovers we’ve had, nothing compares to what we have together.

My mom doesn’t really see that. And I can’t blame her, she’s a mom. She only sees the guy that broke my heart and doesn’t trust him anymore. And I want her to be comfortable around him and vice versa. I’m not saying people change easily, but I know in my heart he is in love with me and only me.

I just want her to see that, too. How can I get these two together and be on the same page for the sake of me? I never want to choose sides. I love them both dearly in different ways.

Any suggestions?

Update: so it’s not confusing, he’s not the only guy I’ve dated. I’ve had boyfriends before and after him, we both have stable jobs and live on our own and we’re planning on getting married in 2024.