My birthday

So my birthday is on 4th of July but me and my partner will celebrate on the 3rd of July and I don’t know why I’m stressed out

It won’t be a party, we’re just going to cinema and eat dinner in a fine dining restaurant that’s it!

I don’t know what to wear, black and medi dress? Or something else?

And should I put makeup, like a heavy makeup or something simple? He never saw me with makeup on so I don’t know if he’ll like it or not

And he’s not feeling good these days cuz he lost his job and i feel like I’m forcing him to celebrate with me because no one ever remembers my birthday and it make me look desperate 😫

Anyway, any idea? Should I cancel everything? What should I do, I’m sad 😔