My fiancé is 21, College student (summer breaks obviously) and has never had a job in his life. Meanwhile I'm 19 with a job because I took a semester break to figure my shit out which I did. Every day and night he wakes up gets right on his xbox and plays ALL DAY until he goes to sleep which would be around 5 a.m.! I recently came down with a cold so i've been taking medicine but I've woken up around 3 a.m. because he is on the xbox chat with friends YELLING because he can't hear when he talks even though I've told him numerous times that he's yelling.Now this is not the first time I've told him this but tonight I got fed up and told him that he is to go to bed when I go to bed and to get a hobby or job because playing xbox for 16 hours+ is not it for me or him. he looked at me like "yea whatever" and continued to play his game. I told him that he is 21 and that he needs to be an adult and that adults don't play video games that much. I wouldn't have lost it if he went to bed at regular times and played xbox for a limited time

but he doesn't!