Who has a higher sex drive

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I'm feeling sex deprived by my husband because I love our sex so much that I want it every day but he wants it less or it's not important to him. Just wondering how to handle this because we've also been trying for a baby 😓

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Just because he doesn’t want sex every day doesn’t mean he doesn’t also love sex with you. I also wouldn’t call you deprived. I certainly don’t want sex everyday. Not everyone does.

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I could have wrote this post myself!!! Same situation here

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Well, finding I suggest to everyone is to be open and honest and have a conversation about what you want. Go with "I feel" phrases rather than "you should" and validate the points the other person makes. Like, if your hubby said "I feel you're just using me to make a baby and that turns me off" your response could be "I understand you feel I'm using you to get pregnant, how can we address that so you don't feel that way anymore. I love you and want us to have joyous intimate moments together and don't want you to feel like I'm using you" or something like. Being in close contact is also great because it makes it feel like you're welcome together rather than attacking reach other. 
I will say that it seems like your sex drives at different points right now and it might be a good idea for toys to get put to use. You can even make it a naughty date for the two of you. Dinner and then a trip to the local sex store for some bedroom toys to either share or just for you to use but hubby can help you pick them out

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My husband’s drive is so much higher than mine! I could probably go months without having sex and be totally fine. He would prefer us to do it more often (several times a week). We used to go a couple weeks between “sessions” but I’ve made it a goal to do it at least once a week. I know it makes him really happy and I enjoy it as well so it’s not like he’s forcing me. This will change after I have our baby in December but still haha. I would just have a mature conversation with him.

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When me and my partner started living together all of the sudden we stopped having sex as often because before that we saw each other only on weekends and because we saw each other only for a short time we tried to have sex as much as we could but then when we were living together there was no need to have sex twice or three times a day. And at first it was making me sad and I was thinking that he doesn't find me attractive anymore and that he doesn't want to have sex with me but now I understand that sometimes people don't feel like it. I have it like that myself now. Sometimes I feel tired, too hot, too full after dinner, sometimes I just feel down and sad (for example because of stressful day at work) or sometimes I just feel like we already had too much sex that week and I just feel like cuddling instead. And we're not trying for a baby yet, but I feel like sometimes people are under big pressure when trying for a baby and when you're under that much pressure all of the sudden it feels like nothing can turn you on.

Who has a higher sex drive

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