Would you reach out?

My best friend that ive had since we were babies and i had a bit of a falling out a few months ago. She moved city and has had mental health issues that have escalated since moving. She was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder. Ive always been there for her through out it all even if i didnt agree with her decisions (pushing family away, ending a perfectly good engagement with someone who loved her unconditionally just because she was bored of him, quitting her job with no back up) etc. I always just wanted her to be happy so i supported every decision she made along the way. Ive been so happy for her when she has had success (moving cities into a really nice place, finding a new job, buying a new car, etc) regardless of where my own mental health was at. i never verbalized anything negative to her ever and have only ever supported her.

Anyway, she left her ex fiance, left her job, and found out her house was being sold by her landlord and she had to move. She never told me any of this but i could tell something was off so i was sure to call her and support her many times. All while going through that, i got married... she was my bridesmaid but apparently according to my family looked like she was miserable the entire time..

After my wedding i began searching for a house to buy (keep in mind i had no idea she was being forced to move) so i sent her a listing of a potential property that we had put an offer on. She responded by saying she didnt wanna see that because it sent her mental health spiraling. I apologized and told her that i had no idea. I told her my mental health wasnt in a great place because of covid either and because i had just had a miscarriage (i have severe clinical depression) and i was just trying to reach out and start conversations by sending her that stuff and i didnt mean to upset her. i said i wouldnt anymore and apologized again. I got no response from her. Its been 4 months. I found out i was pregnant shortly after we stopped talking. 4 months later i post on social media that im pregnant and have recieved no congratulations or anything. I get she has been toxic this past littke while but call me crazy because I miss her. We have been best friends since birth. If you were in my situation would you reach out or leave it?