Rant post

Hey Ladies! I’m would like to rant as i’m super furious and want to know your thoughts.

I’ve been battling with unknown cause for infertility for 3 years and went through IVF and finally I’m blessed to be pregnant with twins. I’m over the moon and kept it a secret till the doctor cleared us out of danger and started telling close friends and relatives. Noting that no one knew about my infertility problems even my mother it was just me and my husband. I’m so happy and expected everyone around me to be happy for me but it drives me crazy when i get this response “congratulations!! But how come twins?”

I personally don’t mind sharing my infertility journey but when i want and to whom i feel comfortable sharing with. I hate the fact that it’s a taboo to everyone and that once i say ivf it’s as if something is wrong with me. Why can’t people be happy for me and just not care why the hell do i have twins, why should i get feedback like “oh my cousin has twins you can get her advice but she had twins naturally because my mom is a twin herself”

Am i going insane over this or is it the hormones or what?!