Is polygamy wrong? Wanting a man and a female?

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I like males and females. I want to get married to a man. But I want a girlfriend also… Tbh I want us to have a girlfriend….. I’ve never been with a girl before though it’s just a thought

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As longest your partner wants the same thing I see nothing wrong with it.

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Meant to click no. As long as there is no abuse and he’s able to support the wives and children, I don’t care.

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I am poly and have 2 long term partners. Nothing is wrong with poly. It just means we have more love to give and connect with people on different levels.

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It’s not a problem. I’m polyamory and have a gf and a bf. And they are also happy with each other and we all know and all happy

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As long as both people are aware and happy with the situation then do whatever makes you happy. You want them to be happy too though so make sure it's something they are truly interested in as well because if all people involved aren't happy with it things could very quickly go south.

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I wish I had taken the time to get to know myself better BEFORE committing to a serious relationship with children 😩 I have recently found out that I truly want a polygamist marriage (one husband and several wives and lots and lots of babies!!) but my husband isn't interested in that. I love him to death and don't want to leave him or anything, just wish I knew this about myself before so we could have talked about it and maybe tried a relationship with a second woman to see if it was our thing. Now I would feel terrible bringing someone into my kid's lives and then it not working out

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Honestly I've seen it go both ways .. 
No pun intended..
My friend whose trans was with a cis male and they tried to add a female to the mix .
One night my friends bf was with the girl and they didn't tell my friend..
Yeah. Didn't end well. :/ It's just hit or miss. I don't recommend it honestly.

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I have been seeing poly relationships on TikTok and it’s super interesting. I’ve thought about asking my husband, we’ve actually talked about a throuple in the past! But the only bad side is, telling friends and family what you’re doing.. I think that’s the main thing stopping me. 🤦🏼‍♀️ but it’s a huge thought of mine too. Please message me!!

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Nope. If everyone involved is okay with it and happy, it's fine. I almost was in a poly relationship twice. I'm a single mom. I'm open minded and was open to see where it went. One said I wasn't right for them. The other I ended up meeting my bf and felt I found my person and content with one partner. And accidentally ghosted them. I just didn't know how tell them what happened and would feel odd texting them again after so long. Felt bad. 
I truly believe some people can love more than one person at once. If there is open communication and honesty at all times. Can't be a jealous type at all. Or wouldn't work after awhile. 
My boyfriend and me had talk about threesomes and we won't able to share each other and I'd have way to much anxiety about all things that could go wrong. 
If I was the person being brought into a already existing ploy relationship I probably could see it working. But bringing someone into a my relationship, won't be able to do. I honestly won't ever be able to share my boyfriend with anyone. We pretty clingy with each and the other won't get a turn in reality.
I know someone who's married to a man, they have kids. He's ok with her having a gf but not many women want to be with a married woman with kids. As she said. Not necessarily poly with everyone dating each other though.

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I don’t see anything wrong with it for other people. Not something I’d be interested in but it’s really up to you and your husband. I think a lot of people jump into without fully thinking it through and it causes a strain on marriages sometimes. I’d just take awhile to think on it.

Is polygamy wrong? Wanting a man and a female?

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