What do I do 😔😞

So when I came home from grocery shopping today, my husband to my surprise was one mixed drink down, cleaning the house. I was a little irritated cause it was like 3 pm but he does work hard all week and likes to relax on the weekends. Sometimes that means sleeping the whole weekend or having a few drinks. Anyways, I was putting the groceries and he was just acting distant. So I brought it up. Then he started going off (not really like angry but just talking a lot and passionately) saying how I stress him out every time I’m around and when I’m gone he feels better and less like he’s walking on egg shells. He told me how I sometimes make him want to get on anti depressants for depression and anxiety. He said he realized all of this when I went to my moms for a few days and he was home alone. Idk what to do. My anxiety is through the roof. Idk how to feel.