Just Broken

So a few years ago (4) my husband had an affair with a woman on his job, during that time he really treated me like shit because he was so caught up being into her. During that time I felt really alone and didn’t have anyone to talk to. I became close with a guy that was at the time a friend of the family but is not my sisters brother in law. Long story short he was there for me when my husband had completely turned his back on me and our at the time our 2 kids we now have 3. I developed an emotional connection/relationship with the other guy. We have never did anything sexual other than sharing a kiss. My husband and I then decided to try to work things out but I was still in contact with the other guy just checking in on each other, he had (the other guy) was now engaged to someone else. My husband found out about us still reaching out to each other and contacted the other guys Fiancé, she called the engagement off and broke up with him. Fast forward it’s been a little over 7 months ago that this took place and I haven’t been in contact with the other guy after everything happened that night that his fiancé was contacted by my husband. A few weeks ago my husband tells me the woman he had an affair with is now working on the same team as him and he will see her sometimes. Not really an issue but the issue now is that he says he can’t trust me and doesn’t know how to feel about the issue from my past.

Regarding the comment below I forgot to add that we are seeking marital counseling and have an appointment coming up next week. Not really knowing what to expect, we’ll see how it goes