How long will you let yourself be pregnant?

Rica

If my baby doesn’t come by my due date they said they will schedule me an induction at 41 weeks or as late as 41+4. I can obviously deny any induction and keep waiting but how long is too long? Is it not so safe for baby to stay in past 42? Idk I’m scared! I really don’t want to be induced at all! I want to go into labor naturally and I want her to come on her own time- this is very important to me but it being my first pregnancy I know it’s common to go up to even 42 weeks. But a friend of mine just had her baby at 41+ a few days and the baby was born w trouble breathing and had to go to NICU and her doctors told her this is common for babies who go past 40 weeks and this is why they try to get them out before 41 and definitely before 42... that scares me

So how long will you let yourselves stay pregnant before you get induced? And why?