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Me and my husband have been together 14years and been married for 6 years .. we are childhood sweethearts I met him at 15 and I’m now 29 … i have been with other guys and done stuff with them but I haven’t had sex with any other guy but him we have two kids together and I’m just to a point where I feel like I didn’t live my life how I wanted although I have been on crazy nights out with my girls I have never been on young crazy drinking holiday … it’s only now I’m feeling bored in my relationship i feel like I want to date other men ect I don’t even know what to do … is it normal to feel like this after such a long time .. just feel really unhappy at the moment thinking about what I want life wise and I can’t have it

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Dont fall for the trap. Its not golden out here. Many women wisssshhh they forwent their hot girl summer years and was looking for a suitable partner and are still single. Dont compare yourself. A relationship is like a garden... u hv to water it, get in their pull weeds, and get rid of pest. Seek a relationship councelor or marriage councelor on how u both can rekindle what u have.

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It sounds like a midlife crisis to me. Do not mess up the life you’ve built just to have an unstable, miserable life. Living single isn’t all it’s made out to be on tv and social media. I’ve been with my husband for 12 years and I never want anyone else! I’d much rather have this life, building up our future and raising our kids. Buying a house and truly having a partner to walk through this scary world with. All of that completely trumps getting wasted and fucking random guys. I think you need to do some self reflection and figure out what your goals are for yourself.

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It seems like now at 29 you want to have a life you just don't have. What mentioned was being with other men and drinking with your girls... 
Before you make any desicions try to spice it up with him so you don't feel you are missing out. It is normal to wonder about other men... I fantasize about the rock all the time lmao. 
On drinking and doind crazy things with girfriends: sure it seems like fun and it probably is. But you do have kids now, so going on holidays and doing crazy things is now limited. You can still go for a weekend somewhere just you and your friends. 
I think that is overrated. Partying gives no personal fulfillment. And many single women who party everyday will give away that lifestyle in a minute if they find a good man. Dating is hard and many guys out there are not worth your time. 
Don't fall for social media pictures that glorify that lifestyle.

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Me and my husband have been together for 9 years. I know not as long. However, maybe all you guys need is some variety in the bedroom? Bring in some new toys, try different positions, etc. I agree with above. The grass is not greener.

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girl dont do it. the grass is not always greener. dont mess up your current situation.

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Maybe try dating again bring the excitement back . x

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Me and my husband are childhood sweethearts been together over 20 years ( could get less for murder 🤣🤣🤣) we’ve got 5 children together . The grass isn’t greener on the other side .

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