My husband and I are at an impasse. To put us into perspective: We are established adults, I’d even say upper class. We both have very good jobs and I am a PhD student. I am 25 and my husband is 34. When he was younger, he did all sorts of drugs and did all of the wild stuff when he was a teen before he joined the army (he’s out now). I did as well to an extent but not as hard as him. I was also an avid smoker before I started my big job. Anyways, our kids are out of state through the next couple weeks but next weekend is our only complete, free weekend. I suggested we do shrooms. I know, you’re probably like 🙄 But I mean, we are in a safe environment, it doesn’t show up on drug tests, and it’s not like it’s addictive. It’s just like weed but with different effects. He thought it was hilarious but said totally not. I guess I really did some digging and I think I’m just bored. Like we are church going, wine drinking, adulty adults and I just want to do something crazy. Something different. I’m tired of going to art galleries and movie theaters and hikes. Like I don’t know if it’s my age or what I’m going through but I want to just sit in a messed up house on a crusty futon under a black light and get blazed. It’s so far from who we are now, but I guess I’m just craving that feeling of no responsibility. Just vibing. I know it’s stupid but I honestly almost cried when he said no. It’s not necessarily about the shrooms, it’s just about my sheer boredom and my craving for getting a little wild. I also know you’re going to say “you can cure boredom without drugs”. Right. But I do that all the time. This is just different, it’s taboo. Has anyone gone through a similar experience? I feel so…bored.