Are there somewhat fit men out there that like plus size women?

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I’m plus size due to thyroid but growing up I was always told men like skinnier women so idk. Before my weight gain, I always went for fitter dudes not super buff but you get the vibe. Now that I’m bigger I feel like my options are limited

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Its ok to hve a physical attraction and preference but u need to be moatly focused on the morals, character, integrity, kindness, generosity, attitude, values of a man. Because that is what is going to support u during trials, tribulations, celebrate your successes, and support u mentally emotionally physically and financially. Not his appearence.

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Absolutely there is! Everyone has their type and not everyone's type is the same.

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I'm a thin and fit woman and I love my chubby man. I wouldnt want him to get skinny or have a 6 pack. I don't see why it would not go the other way around!

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Yeah there are. My own brother is one of them lol. He's all muscular and prefers/only dates women who are plus size.
I'm thin too & like people of all body types.

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Yes absolutely. I’m a chubby/midsize girl and I don’t think my weight has had any effect on dating. Different men have different types just as women do. There’s definitely a lot of fit men who love bigger women

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Girl please don’t sweat it😌 I believe there is someone for everyone. I actually found as a very much plus size gal, I get a good amount of attention on apps. It comes down to accepting compliments and gaining confidence. My bfs weight fluctuates 170-185 ish and I’m size 20 (US). He is type 2 and was 350lbs until age 19. He normally works a labor intensive job but now found something gentler on his body. He works out usually and his “frame” is skinny. He has good arm muscles but has a lil tummy pooch from not working out in 3 weeks+. Honestly our relationship has nothing to do with size, although he is a fan of my big boobs and butt. Find some cute undies and wear them on dates for no reason. I actually like to wear tight clothes, and with the curves, it photographs well in mirror selfies. Of course do what you can to take care of the thyroid issue, and just know dating while plus size has its own perks. Have fun and good luck ❤️

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Absolutely I’m about 100 pounds heavier than my partner, he thinks I am so hot and gorgeous, he kisses my belly, he adores me, I’ve never had a problem getting a man whether I was 350 pounds, or at any weight. Yes some men are crap, and will go after a plus size woman because they feel she’s lonely and desperate and will tolerate whatever crap, but don’t be that girl. Never settle for less than you deserve, never allow anyone to use you, take advantage of you, make you feel bad about yourself, Or anything else,. You deserve love, you deserve happiness, you deserve everything that the world has out there for you, the world is endless, the world is limitless, the only one that women seem as yourself in your own mind. I want you to do an exercise for me to take a piece of paper and draw a line down the middle, on the left side you’re gonna write all of the negative and mean girl things that you say about yourself in an iamb statement. I am ugly, I am stupid, I am worthless, whatever it may be on the right side you’re gonna write the opposite and a positive statement I am smart, I am beautiful, I am worth it, and then I want you to write the positive statements on a posted one statement for each post it and I want you to put them all over, your house, and your job, in your car, and whenever you see them I want you to repeat them with conviction like a daily affirmation. When your self-esteem and your self-worth rises, you attract higher quality people. When your self-esteem and your self-worth is low, you attract crap that use and take advantage of you. I am a beautiful person inside and out and anyone who doesn’t see me that way doesn’t deserve to be in my life. And that’s the way you have to look at it. And it’s not that I’m full of myself or have an ego trip or anything like that, I fell in love with my body when I was 350 pounds, we carry our stories on our body, my wife hasn’t been easy since the time I was four years old, my father died when I was four I was sexually abused at eight, rape, alcoholic by the age of 12, two miscarriages, every man I’ve ever had contact in my life with either abused me physically mentally emotionally, because I allowed it. I didn’t want to be alone, they knew that and they use that to their advantage to get away with murder, I don’t tolerate bullshit anymore, if I meet a guy, I tell him day one I don’t do hook ups, I don’t do friends with benefits, I’m a relationship girl and if you’re not on board with that, then I don’t waste my time, that usually weeds out the guys were just looking to pump and dump you. I tell guys I don’t tolerate bullshit, effort and consistency are very important to me, I will match your effort, I will not chase after you, or you will not hear from me. Never make a man so much of a priority that you don’t have a balance in your life between work and family and friends etc. that when the relationship is gone that you crumble, you still have a life outside of them, life existed before them and it will exist after them. Absolutely there are men who love plus size women, my guy has legs that I can literally put my hand around them, he’s so skinny, he’s about 180 pounds, he works out every single day, he’s a lawyer, he is smart, we have the same sense of humor, I’ve known him 20 years, it was just perfect timing. We’ve been together for a year. We have the most hottest, passionate, he can go five rounds and keep up with me, is the first partner who’s ever been able to keep up with me, I get on top, he gets on top, couldn’t be happier. He adores me, he kisses my belly, he thinks I have an amazing body and wishes I would walk around naked more often because he loves my confidence, he loves that I know who I am, he loves everything about me.￼￼￼￼￼ it took me going through a lot of crappy men to finally find him, but it was me who needed to fix myself before I ever got into a real relationship, if I was still that person who let menus and take advantage and abuse, he would never of seen me differently, he seen me at my worst, he seen me at my best, he’s seen me at 350 pounds after pregnancies and miscarriages in abusive relationships, he seen me through everything. He knows my past, he knows every partner I’ve ever been with, he knows my number, I know his number, he was popular with the ladies, an athlete in high school and in college, so of course his number is high, and it doesn’t shock me at all, in fact the fact that he knows what he’s doing, he can control his penis, he doesn’t have sex for two minutes and Collett a day, he is the most attentive lover, he goes down on me, he loves going down on me, just as much as I love going down on him, is the most perfectly matched relationship. Wait for that, never settle for less, it’s OK to be alone, you are better off alone than in bad company that doesn’t appreciate or respect you. Always remember that it’s OK to be alone, love yourself, date yourself, pamper yourself, a man does not complete you, you complete yourself. Never depend on a man for your happiness, or your sanity, or you will surely be let down. Happiness comes from within, learn to love yourself. Like I said I fell in love with my body at 350 pounds, I healed from all of my trauma, I dropped 100 pounds in a year, just walking and eating better, I took care of myself, I made myself a priority, life is what you make it, if you aren’t happy, you learn to love,accept, and embrace yourself flaws and all. Anyone that doesn’t like you, that’s their loss, they can kiss your ass, everyone has an opinion, and they are entitled to it, but you don’t have to surround yourself with people who don’t love and appreciate you and make you feel good about yourself. And I stop caring about what anyone thought of me along time ago, because I grew up with a narcissistic mother who treated me like shit. But because of her that, I don’t care what she says or anyone else says, and I had to learn that, otherwise all she ever did was make me feel like shit, she made me run to the fridge for comfort every time she would say something nasty to me, she was the reason for so many things in my life. But a narcissist will never except fault or blame, they have to be right, they have to get their way, no one is happy around them ever has to be miserable for them to feel better about themselves. Remember you can’t grow and toxic soil, and a rainbow can’t come out unless it stops raining. If you feel that you need psychological help, by all means reach out and get some help, It took me a long time to get to where I am, but hopefully it doesn’t take you that as well.

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Of course there is!!

Are there somewhat fit men out there that like plus size women?

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