I really like my partner's parents but they did their son a terrible disservice by not teaching him any life skills. His mom did everything for him till he moved in with me a little over a year ago. I had to show him how to use a washing machine to wash his clothes, he never washed any dishes before he met me, he's never mowed a lawn until we rented a house together and now he struggles to keep up with it (it's not a big yard) he's always making excuses to not cut the lawn and it gets out of control. He is 23 years old, he should have been taught these basic life skills a long time ago but he was babied to the point where now I have to show him how to do what his parents should have taught him. I was a single mom when we met so I probably had more life skills then the average 20 something but the stuff that I'm having to teach him is stuff I learned when I was 16. I love this guy and I'm due with our baby in the next 5 weeks but it's getting to the point I'm very scared he's not going to help out when the baby comes because he barely does the 3 chores he agreed to do when we moved in together (mowing the lawn, taking out the garbage/recycling, and making sure his laundry is done. All things he only has to do once a week). How do I get him to grow up? I don't want to feel like his mother when I already have a toddler and I'm about to have a baby with him.