How did you realise you weren’t meant to be with your partner any more?

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This is something I’m really struggling with at the minute and i feel so guilty 😞 we have two beautiful daughters and get married next year, but my gut is telling me that we aren’t supposed to be together.  Not for any particular reason, just my intuition, and I can’t shake the feeling

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Girl you’ve got two kids with the man already, you should be happy to marry him. Idk what the heck people are thinking. Why would you have two children by a man that you’re unsure you want to be with?  I’m sorry but that’s just selfish and you’re doing a disservice to your children. The BEST situation for a child is to be raised under the same roof with their father. Maybe you’re thinking you’ll be able to find someone better than him but a lot of men don’t want to marry women with children, especially a good man who essentially has his pick of women. You come along with not one but two children. I’m not saying you’ll never get a date but not too many quality men are rushing to marry a woman with two kids by another man and that she just up and left that man for no real reason. I hope things work out for you but you may regret not marrying this guy.

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Sounds like you’re experiencing some anxiety about your future. I got married last year and have two babies with my now husband. He’s amazing and I think the reason why I was overthinking a lot about our future and felt uncertain is because I never really had anything work out for me. So in a way I end up sabotaging good things because I think they will end in disaster. Try writing down all the reasons why you love him and what made you fall in love and have babies. Focus on the good and keep reminding yourself you deserve to be happy. You could also seek therapy. Goodluck :)

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I would say that’s enough to know it isn’t right 
If you’re getting married, you should feel with certainty that he’s the man you want to spend forever with

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It could just be jitters about your future. I don't want to scare you, but my friend was in the same position. She ended up leaving her SO. He begged for her back, she still said no. She never found another love or any man as decent as him. She let her fears get in the way. Meanwhile, he is getting married next month & seems very happy. I feel bad for my friend & I know if she had the chance to go back, she wouldn't have let him go.

How did you realise you weren’t meant to be with your partner any more?

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