Story: me and my husband have had many problems like all couples do on their firs years of marriage but for reasons we have not solve our problems yet. I am a peros who repeats all like “do you love me” or “do you like me” “are you checking out other girls “ and I also constantly tell him “we have few more months left until we know if we move out of to our own place or me divorce” ( I hate leaving with his family so if we don’t move soon it’s over) and other things like that. My husband on the other side get frustrated when we talk about our problems, does not like me telling his truth specially when it comes to things that his family does that he knows there wrong. He says that if I repeat things over and over he’ll do them on purpose.

Some days I want to try and have a better relationship with him but it’s so hard when we live with his family and there is no time for us or when he’s with his family he forgets me. He’s a mommy boy but wayyyy too exaggerated, to the point where SHE knows everything about we do or where we go every situation ALL OF IT. I have thought a lot and I know if we don’t change and solve our problems it will end.

What should I do?

#1- keep asking him so he won’t forget, repeat the time we have left to change, tell him his family shit

#2- Be a little apart from him to the point he knows we’re less communicated, don’t ask anything and just focus on myself

I don’t trust him, I hate living with his family and I want things to change just don’t know how