Hi ladies! i'm having my first baby in 2 weeks and i plan on getting the epidural so i have a few questions!!

can you control peeing/pooping? or do you go all over the place?

can you get in the bath with one? like maybe they can wheel me in the bath tub..?😂

do you really get the shakes and hot flashes?? how do you control them / handle it? i get hot flashes already from pregnancy sometimes and it's the worstttt 🤣🤣🤣

how long does the epidural take to kick in after it's put in ?

is it ever too late for an epidural?

how do i get over the fear of becoming paralyzed from it?

sorry about all the questions 😂