My husband and I have been together for over eight years. We have a 1 1/2-year-old daughter. My in-laws have been very involved in all their kids lives and their grandkids. They’re very nice people, my mother-in-law gonna be a bit overbearing, and he’s very opinionated, but that’s the worst of it. So why am I so resentful of them? I once was very close to my family that was until I met my husband. They didn’t like him, honestly they never really gave him a chance. They never got to see that we really are happy together. They always say negative things and start trouble. Even aside from all that I still wanted them to be a part of our lives and their granddaughter‘s life, but from the moment she was born, they were all about competing with my in-laws. And when they felt that my daughter Was going to get more attached to my in-laws than them , they stopped coming around. My in-laws live 10 minutes away my parents live an hour and a half away so obviously my in-laws would probably see her more but we never stopped my parents for seeing her anytime they wanted.They made it all about the competition and thinking we chose my in-laws over them and it’s very childish I know, but now I’m living with this feeling that my daughter has no relationship with any of my family and she’s always with my husband’s family and there’s this resentful feeling that I don’t know how to get rid of. Is anybody else been through this and what helped you get through it?