Lately I’ve realized that I’ve been very snappy. Whenever my boyfriend forgets to take out the trash, do laundry, or feed the dog, I’ll get upset and cranky even though I know we can resolve it by talking it out. Whenever I get home from work, I feel overwhelmed whenever he doesn’t get something done but lately I’ve been losing my temper. I’ve started calling him dumb, or say things like: “Did you even do anything at all? Gosh I can never freakin ask you for help. You know what no I’ll fucking do it” and so forth.

He’s told me a few times in the past month or so that he feels like I’m belittling him. I’m honestly not trying to and it’s starting to just come out. I feel short tempered with him and idk why. He does help me around the house but whenever I ask for something to get done and he doesn’t do it, it upsets me.

I’ve always supported his dreams and have never put myself above him. If anything I’ve always told him he deserves better. So I’m just confused as to why I’m snapping at him