Am I cheating?????

Question

I'm engaged to someone awesome kind and loving , but I still think about my ex , after our break up I met my fiance and took my time but I just couldn't stop thinking about my ex so at one time I tried to talk to him about it but he simply rejected my feelings out I felt so little and broken ,so I let go and did my best to make my boyfriend happy and create an healthy relationship with him till he proposed and I said yes ..
After that my ex tried to get back and i told him I'm engaged , he said he wishes me well and left ..and ever since I can't stop thinking about him .
I feel super guilty and upset about myself I know I shouldn't be like this what's wrong with me??

Answer

If you still want to be with your ex and really can’t stop thinking about him, maybe you should leave your fiancé. I’m not trying to be that person that just tells the person to leave their significant other, but I don’t think it’s really fair to your fiancé. 
You either want to be with your ex or you don’t. If you do, then why not be 100% emotionally invested to your partner?

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you’re not cheating, but if you still love your ex you shouldn’t be with your fiancé. 
it’s not fair to him or to you. we only live once, don’t spent it wishing you were with someone else.

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you should not be getting married

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I didn’t read the whole post ,girl don’t get married ..if this guy is really that amazing then u should wait till ur only thinking about him

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So you don't love your fiance and need to leave him if you can't stop thinking about your ex and reached out to him talking about your feelings for him. It's unfair to your fiance and his feelings to string him along till you figure out which guy you want to be with. You need to take a step back and leave your him while you figure it out.

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Clearly something is wrong in your current relationship if you’re fawning after your ex. You need to address it. I would not want a relationship with someone who didn’t want me and only me. This would be a deal breaker. You shouldn’t be marrying someone you aren’t sure about.

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Try to also think of the reasons you broke up, are you willing to come back to that? Don’t assume things would be different. How is your new relationship better in comparison. I would think of that to decide

Am I cheating?????

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