TMI but please help a girl out

*TMI*

Has anyone else not been able to do the deed while pregnant? Ever since we found out, we’ve maybe done it like 5-6 times and I’m now 8 months pregnant 😬 it just hurts sooooo bad I can’t handle it and i tense right up. I feel so bad for my boyfriend but he understands and we’re able to still do other things. Has anyone else experienced this?

Also, I’ve had 3 people now tell me that my labor and delivery is going to be rough because I haven’t been doing the deed. That I won’t be ‘lubricated and stretched out’ enough, is this true or is just people trying to scare me?!