Painful sex

Hi all,

I wanted to ask if anyone experiences painful sex? I didnt have intercourse until I was 23 years old. The first time I felt like I was dying!!!!! It wouldn't go in (not even the tip) and when it did, it was excruciating. I thought i was going to die or pass out (no lie). I felt him up in my stomach (lower abdomen area). Yes i know not possible but it was the sensation i felt. I also bled and saw small tears on my sides of Im guessing is my "hymen". Hubby was super patient and gentle with me..but still..PAINFUL. i was also sore after.

Fast forward 4 years later, its NOT AS excruciating but it still hurts/feels uncomfortable. I still feel sore after sex. I do not enjoy sex , at all (other than oral). I do not feel pleasure from penetration sex. Oddly enough, i lubricate Soo much (drip) when intimate with him.

Ive been to gynos and all say im fine. But I know am I not because it hurts and i feel no pleasure. What could be going on? Can anyone else relate?? Suggestions ??