I’m coming here to see if I’m a “greedy” or crappy person.

Let me start by explaining my husband works and pays the bills, the house we live in is under only his name, since we got married he refuses to put my name on the house. He rather me not work and I have mentioned it tons of times but he says nopeeee. However, I do work from home for my parents and make a small amount of money in which I use for my own needs and my 3 kids needs, he claims he never struggles and always makes enough as needed, he put it upon himself to open about 4-5 credit cards under my name that I guess he uses, if I use them I have to ask first since he pays them, I didn’t even want them…but he wanted to build my credit 🙄, he also talked me into trading in my car the car payment is so high, it’s under my moms and my name , he helps pay half the car payment…he also told me to take him off child support because he needed his back child support to go to his other baby mama so that he could get a passport (this was before we got married)

But regardless if me or the kids ever need something he does for the most part do his part, as he should though considering him not wanting me to work.

Here comes the interesting part, I have a daughter who is 10 who I had at 18 and never got child support for but it’s been filed since she was born…So I just FINALLY started getting child support, and if I don’t tell my husband I do he tells me I’m sneaky, and that I need to remove the money from the card and immediately put it into the joint account…I just got a tax return of a big chunk of money after years of nothing and I got sick just telling my husband about it but I wanted to not keep it from him, so I tell him and he’s asking daily if I called the card to see if the money was on there yet, I keep saying no no when it is I’ll tell you, he then stomps off not even kissing me bye and just acts shady all day but calls me that, I asked for the reason all the money needs to go into the account and he couldn’t give me one just basically because he says so, he then says things like “ I don’t have money anymore you use your money I won’t help you ever again” mind you he has two kids with me ! I told him I wanted to save the money, he got mad just because I used it to get all 3 kids a good pair of shoes…any thing I say about the money he accuses or holds against me that I’m this or that, the last two days he needs the money to pay for a credit card, and I immediately ignore it, I have no idea what to do because anything I say I’m sneaky or greedy, I don’t understand why he’s acting this way, makes me wish I never got the money!