Well I don't know if anyone else has this problem or feels this way but I'm 35 yrs old and am expecting my 4th baby in January. My kids are spaced oldest is 16, 12, 4 all girls.

I haven't told many people that I'm pregnant because when I do I just feel like I get put down for being my age and having another baby.

All my examples

I keep getting :

* Wow ....(silence) was this planned ??

*Your brave ( asked why because you were almost done now your starting over )

* Arent you up there in age?

*Your going be old when that kid is in high school

* Was this an oops baby

*You could have you time when your kids were in school but now you won't ever have that

Doesn't matter why you said it but the fact that these were said and then after say congratulations! It doesn't change how you first responded to my good news.

Here I am happy and i feel like everyone wants to bust my bubble of happiness with shocking comments. 😔🤰

I just needed somewhere to express my feelings since all those I would turn to are the ones that said these hurtful things.