Soooo itchy😭😭

Everytime I try to shave down there I get so so itchy and uncomfortable, I can't seem to get a close shave and it's so hard to even get all the hair bc it grows like.... in-between the lips and then when that's stubble it itches so bad, and right wheremy thighs start itches bc of the stubble and idk what to do😭 physically I'm so much more comfortable with hair down there but looks wise I don't want hair😭