My husband and I recently moved to Kansas. On top of months of ttc my rainbow baby and find a job and start a small business. Clearly with everything going on, I’ve been insanely overwhelmed and stressed.

I realized tho, that I have been overspending… a lot. And I’m not really sure what to do. It’s like I can’t even help myself. It’s the only thing that’s made me feel calmer and better. I know it’s not okay. I know it’s not healthy. And I even though my husband is amazing and tells me it’s fine and nothing to be upset about, I feel terrible. It’s like a horrible cycle and mental game on myself.

I haven’t been able to go back to therapy yet, due to some health insurance changes… so I need SOMETHING to help me.

Does anyone have any ideas of what I could do to help myself? I’m open to any ideas. Please don’t be rude. I’m just trying to get some help.