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Question

How did you know you were done having kids? I'm struggling with the decision to get my tubes tied. I'm 32 with a 2 yr old and 3 month old. Part of me wants to be done but the other half really wants just one more. (My hubby says he will be happy with either decision) How did yall know you were done having kids? Did you ever regret your decision?

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My husband and I felt done with my two boys and we were talking about him getting a vasectomy, but it never went further then just talking about it (our boys were 9 and 11). I got pregnant last year and it was our surprise baby girl NOW I REALLY feel like our family is complete and just before she was born he went in and got a vasectomy 🤗 NO REGRETS!! No more babies for me 💜

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Emmy husband and I went back and forth about having a 3rd for months. A lot of things pointed to being done with our 2 girls but then I would see an empty chair at our table and the family just didn’t seem complete. My husband and I are both only children (he has some half brothers and sisters but they barely talk) so we always wanted a big family. Plus we were hoping for a boy lol 
So here we are, 21 weeks pregnant with a boy! But snip snip after this for sure!!!! I know 4 or more would completely overwhelm us. Plus I’m going to be 36 when this kid is born and I don’t want to have a newborn when I’m 40.

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I would speak to your medical provider about birth control options until you decide so you don’t feel pressure to hurry the decision.

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We haven’t made it there yet, but we did decide that my partner would be getting a vasectomy instead of me getting my tubes tied when the time comes.

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