I need some advice. I’m at my moms and she gave me a lecture about how I need to start doing this and that. I’m very emotional so it made me want to cry..

I’m 19, almost 20. I don’t have a drivers license or a job. I am in college but I do it online because I was too scared to go in person. My mom was asking me “what are you going to do with your life” “are you going to have a career” “what are you passionate about” I said, “I don’t know. I don’t know what I’m passionate about”

I live with my grandparents. She said “what if they were to die tomorrow, what would you do? You don’t have a job or money” then she said something along the lines of “don’t come asking me for help” or something like that, I don’t remember, I didn’t want to be lectured by her.

I’ve always been a good kid and a good student in school. Once I graduate college I’ll be the first in my family to attend and graduate college. I know she’s right that it’s time for me to grow up and adult. Get my license and a job.