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Boyfriend says he doesn’t want kids, but every time we have sex, no condoms and finishes in me… hmm what kinda signals is that 😂 not sure if he would be upset if I got pregnant, but it’s been a year and nothing

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Fyi, he may expect you to get an abortion if you get pregnant. I see it on this app all the time. He says he doesnt want kids, she assumes because hes not using protection that hes not completely serious, she gets pregnant and is then upset and shocked like well why didnt he wear protection then, now he says get an abortion or Im out of here. Be smart.

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Are you ttc? Because I wouldn’t, he’s not sending mixed signals, he’s being lazy. I would get on birth control and/or find a new partner. He said he doesn’t want kids

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You need to stop having unprotected sex until you are both in the same page about children he needs a lesson in how pregnancy works and if he doesn’t want kids start using protection 
Have a serious talk with him and stop having sex in the meantime

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Girl! Just because he doesn't want to use condoms does NOT mean he's okay with getting you pregnant. He is just thinking about self pleasure and that FEELS best in the moment. He TOLD you he doesn't want kids. You are BOTH foolish for having unprotected sex!!!!!!

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Its the kinda signal where he either tells you to get rid of the baby or leaves and never speaks to you again. 
I feel like that should be pretty obvious.

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So.... Are you going to sit until you get pregnant and he leaves? Or.... He made it clear he doesnt want any kids. So its either you protect yourself or call it a loss and end the relationship. 
Next thing you get pregnant and your on here saying BF wants me to get an abortion or BF left me pregnant. Seen it too many times in here. (Not to be Harsh)

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He’s one of those. If/when you become pregnant, he will 100% expect you to terminate (your body, your choice!) But if you don’t he will break up with you and be very aggressive at you and the baby for the next 18 years. Or be the guy who just strings you along while he gets in a relationship with someone else and then has a family with her. It happens all the time. Life is not some kind of Disney movie where he will magically turn into a prince. Search this app, the amount of people who were in the same exact situation will be overwhelming. 
I suggest you take the step to get on birth control, or really sit down and think about what you really want for a future.

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Lol you’re thinking it’s fine no matter what. 
But he’s either gonna send you to get an abortion or dump your ass the moment he finds out.

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Believe what he says and protect yourself if you don't want to be a single mom or get a abortion later

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He say he doesn’t want kids & you not using condoms I would stop doing it without and make him wear one because you will up hurt because he said it he does not want kids seems like you want one ? He will be mad and want you to get a abortion

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