So this is something that is getting out of hand for me in our relationship. I constantly have to remind my husband about things he needs to do, calls he needs to make, bills he needs to pay, things he needs to fix around our house, things he needs to do with our son like all the responsible stuff, I constantly have to remind him of them.

What he does do is play games on his PS4 (sometimes with our son) that’s the most he’ll do because our son complains when he doesn’t spend enough time with him.

But he doesn’t do any of the stuff he has to do as a husband and a father. I feel now like he has no idea what that role entails but we both did grow up in single parent homes so I wonder if this has something to do with it…

We’ve been married for 9 years and for most of that time I just ignored it and handled it all myself but lately it’s been taking a toll on my stress levels and makes me feel like a single mom (hope that doesn’t sound like an exaggeration) as it’s all getting very frustrating.

I’ve talked to him several times about these things and sometimes he listens and says he’ll do them, other times he snaps at me for “nagging” (I don’t nag cus my mom was a huge nag so I’m very cautious not to) but nothing gets done when I say nothing… feel like I’m going mad 😓😢