My husband is making me lose my mind!! He is so forgetful and also never owns up to his mistakes!

Example: A few days ago he forgot to put a diaper on our toddler for nap time even though she’s been wearing diapers for her naps for 3 years. Luckily she didn’t pee in the bed. Yesterday, he forgot AGAIN! AND she peed all over her sheepskin which I can’t really throw in the washer, so now it smells like pee. Took him like two hours to apologize for that but my big thing is how do you forget twice in a row?

Now we’re getting ready to go to the beach tomorrow. Last beach trip (3 weeks ago), he unloaded the whole car when we got home while I bathed our daughter and started to unpack our bags. Come to find out he never unloaded the bag with my wet swim stuff and now it’s covered in mold. He doesn’t understand how it was his fault. 🤯 Is it my job to go double check the car when he tells me everything was unloaded? It shouldn’t be.

Things like this happen regularly. Yes I make mistakes too but I own up to them right away. Also, his forgetfulness makes me feel like I’m going crazy because it’s as if I have another child to watch over. It may not seem like a big deal based on these examples but he is forgetting stuff literally DAILY…and I give him reminders all the time too. It’s exhausting and frustrating.

Help. What should I do? I don’t even feel like trying anymore.