When do I test?

I’ve always had irregular menstrual cycles since the day I first started them so I never really know when I’m going to start my period.. I took an ovulation test around my expected ovulation day but I actually ended up ovulating on the 10th. My husband and I BDs the 9th-11th multiple times just to be sure but now this whole waiting thing is making me anxious.. I took a test earlier today with first morning urine and it was negative.. is it still too early to test? when do I test?

—my breast have been feeling tender but they’ve been that way since before I ovulated

I just took another test and.. still negative