Please note: the father of the baby has been

Physically abusive, mentally abusive and emotionally abusive towards me my entire pregnancy. As far as threatening to kill me, threatening my family, threatening my home and a narcissist as well as possibly bipolar. He has not been diagnosed but he has certainly all the traits even his mother has agreed to. I will be filing for restraining order and full custody once I give birth. Therefore if he can’t agree to this I will be giving birth alone or maybe have my mother come up after delivery but even so it hurts my heart knowing someone who has inflicted so much pain into me in every way and has even gone as far as given my chylmedia and std 6 months pregnant and weeks before baby shower still having sex with women and girls! He’s 22 and found him having sex with a girl that just turned 17! I mean… he has forced himself on me…. Thrown a suit case at me… everything…. So please …. I believe my conditions are fair.

My conditions with you being in birth room;

1. No phone. I don’t want pictures or videos taken of me before given birth or during birth. The last thing I need is someone recording me from there device in pain or exposed and uncomfortable.

2. I don’t want no pictures or videos unless taken on my device in which I will decide what I share or not. It’s a very private and sensitive moment. A rather special time for me so I would like for this to be respected.

3. I don’t want to be cursed at or yelled at or told bitch or any derogatory words. If you feel the need to be rude or disrespectful walk out or leave and let me know if you do decide to leave or to stay sitting down and shut because I won’t allow no one to ruin a moment I waited for months.

4. You will go home and not visit me after the hospital in my home. You are not welcomed inside my house or in the building.

5. Your bag will be checked.

6. Do not come into the labor and delivery room, smelling like weed. I will ask you to leave.

7. Do not kiss Nile. Kissing A baby is extremely dangerous when you have especially been in contact with other women and other potential diseases that can be passed on. Please take it seriously.

8. Once I have given birth, please note I may need someone to help me get into the shower or do simple things. Are you someone that can help ? I may need to leave you with a nurse for 20 mins to watch the baby. Is that something I can confide in you to do?

I’m not even sure if your the right person but these are my conditions.