How many weeks?

Casey • March 2019 👦🏻 August 2021 👼🏻 July 2022 👶🏻

I just read something that said the 12 week thing is a stigma and should be broken cause people need help during the miscarriages that do happen and if no one knows then they can’t help.

That said for our first we waited until 8 weeks to tell everyone and it was the hardest month of my life to keep secret. The exhaustion is already very real this time (only 4 weeks 3 days).

Would it be so awful to tell parents?