I’m struggling with my husband

I just had the most amazing little boy a week o my heart is full but I can not take my husband anymore. He’s really too much. Everything I do he is criticising me. The babies milk isn’t warm enough, I shouldn’t be doing this, I shouldn’t be doing that, we live in a hot country and I’m trying to keep him cool and he’s wrapping him up in a blanket. He just goes against me with anything and I honestly can’t take it. This isn’t my first child it is his and I’m trying to have patience but he’s rude, he says some pretty hurtful things to me and it’s the last thing I need while recovering from a c section