I don't have a sex drive..feel like I can't please partners ...I want a better sex drive.

Im 23. I use to have a sex drive when I like first started to masturbate but it seems like I don't really have one. On a good week I can have sex 3 times. On a slow week I could go probably two weeks before I even notice I haven't had any in a while. I know some people are gonna say that's a normal amount for someone with a low libido. But it's like every relationship I've been in I can never satisfy my partner. It's really hurtful and it messes with my self-esteem and confidence, to the point I don't even want to try to be adventurous..I don't feel empowered. It's always a 'conversation' how I don't satisfy my partners. My current boyfriend said he'd be satisfied with having sex every other day as a ""reAlIsTiC"" goal, that Seems like he's setting us up for failure.

Idk..I'd like to enjoy sex more, but it seems physically and sometimes mentally draining, for little to sometimes no reward. Quite frankly I'd like to enjoy sex more. Maybe I'm out of shape? Idk. Ive tried otc natural supliments like co-hesh or whatever. That just gives me a head ache. And none of them actually work.

⚠️IM NOT LOOKING FOR ANYONE TO SAY HOW MUCH THEY DO OR DONT HAVE SEX! IM NOT TRYING TO COMPAIR !! I WOULD LIKE HELP 🆘⚠️