I’m in my late 20’s and have no desire to be in a romantic relationship with someone and haven’t been for a long time but I want to be a mommy. I’ve always wanted to be a mommy but never wanted to be a wife/girlfriend. I’m very stable in my life on my own. I have been hooking up with this man for about a year now and we’re actually close friends at this point and do things outside of hooking up. We’re not careful at all. I’m not on birth control (he knows that) and we never use condoms. I do have PCOS so it is unlikely I’d get pregnant but I really hope it happens one day 🥺 I’m not planning it but I’m not making us take precautions to prevent it. If it happens and he didn’t want to be there for the baby (we never discussed this) then that’s fine with me and I would have ALOT of support. Just had to get this confession out somewhere because my best friend is very anti kids and pregnancy.

EDIT 1:

I’m not hiding anything or lying to him. He’s a grown man and knows how babies are made. He knows I’m not on birth control. If he wanted to be in the child’s life that would be totally fine. Im not intentionally doing anything special to get pregnant. Im just hoping it ends up that way eventually 🤷🏻‍♀️

EDIT 2:

It’s not some strange man. We have been hooking up for a year and worked with each other and were friends for a year before that. Im also not 20 I’m 28. Im sure I’d be a good mother and it’s kind of rude to even suggest I wouldn’t. Having sex doesn’t make you a bad mom.

Edit 3: you could play the “what if” game with every single thing in life. What if all those scenarios happened with a man you were married with and had a child with? It’s the same thing. I’m allowed to be hopeful. All I’m saying is, I wouldn’t be mad if he got me pregnant.

LAST EDIT:

That’s totally okay if it’s not for you! No ones choice is better or worse. Everyone’s life is different and what works for one may not work for another 😊