Tired of getting rejected

My husband has low T and just started taking testosterone as of yesterday. It’s been about 2 years of minuscule amounts of intimacy or connection at all in our relationship. Like, no kissing, no sex, cuddling, etc. I’m so fed up with it and hate having to ask for the basics in a relationship from him. When I tell him what I need nothing changes and it sometimes feels like it gets even worse. I literally feel like I’m just a roommate to him and if I even try to bring it up now all he does is say “all you want to do is fight about it” and he gets mad about it. I’m at the point now where if he does come on to me all I want to do is reject him to show him how I’ve felt for years. I feel like he just uses his low T as an excuse now to not have to put any work into our relationship. If I stopped everything with him he wouldn’t even notice. I’m so tired of living like this, I crave sex, I need sex and connection.