Husband decided without me

We want to get a kitchen on our second floor and because we’re on a budget, we are going to buy things separate and husband will be installing them. While I was working my husband decided to to look for the cabinets and has already picked out everything. I wasn’t happy about it because I want to be included in the planning. He then got angry with me because he says he’s got no time to make a layout plan and I should trust him with it. It’s not that I don’t trust him with it because he’s got good taste and architecture is what he does. It’s more about he’s excluding me from our decision making as a team and as husband & wife. I‘ve told him this and his solution is by telling me to pick it out myself and he’ll just do the rest. I’ve been thinking of just telling him to do based on his original plan but I’m also torn that this will set the tone for our future decisions in our marriage. How should I go about this?