I need some serious help! 😰 my relationship has been rocky this whole past month.

I haven’t seen my bf since August 2 because I’ve asked for a break/ time to think things through. He’s been texting me every 3 days asking when will be the time I give him an answer. I know it’s a long time but I’m so confused and hurt.

Maybe he will change. Maybe this was just a one time thing..

So we had an argument on august 2nd. He ignored me for 3 days. Told him I don’t like going that long without talking to him. He said I could have reached out too and yes I do recognize I could have done that. The situation got worse. Long story short, I went out with some friends to distract myself. We posted some cute pics which he saw and messaged me this

“Gross picture might as well pose naked, no one will take you seriously like that. Your body is disgusting. Only I know what is under that dress…a pig body with hairs all over. Your nipples have more hair than mine disgusting”

Ok that made me so sad and mad. We were wearing some clubbing outfits but we didn’t go club. The dresses were sparkly and short. They were fitted and showing our backs.

2 weeks later he calls me asking why I haven’t made the effort to call or text. I told him why should I when he has told me the worst. He said he was sorry and that he has anger issues. He asked me about my decision.

Well I expressed how I felt. Felt like he’s seen better bodies, felt like he could be talking to someone else, etc. He told me I was crazy.

He then goes “damn you are mental and every word in the dictionary defines you. My brother was right that you’re the worst gf I’ve ever had”

He texted me this morning apologizing again. He showed up just 10 min with roses and crying telling me he’s losing his mind and that it’s hard communicating with me when all I do is provoke him.

Would you even believe him? Like will this name calling happen again?