Telling a friend who is struggling with Fertility

Tanya 🦋🌈

K so this question is for those who’ve struggled or are still struggling to conceive….

Would you prefer if a friend told you privately about their pregnancy before it being announced out with everyone else ? I’m trying to be sensitive to one of my coworker friends as she is open to their infertility journey but also has expressed her sad/anger/jealous feelings when others announce their pregnancies …

How would you want the news to be shared to you?