So I found out I was pregnant about a month and half ago. My baby daddy didn’t take the news well and actually kicked me out. He’s older than I am as I’m 19 and he’s 25 (was my brothers best friend now my brother hates him for the way he treated me) I’ll be 20 when I give birth as the baby will be born around April. He said the baby could possibly not be his but my ex’s but I haven’t been with my ex for over 5 months and I’m almost 3 months pregnant. The ultrasound and time frame shows that it’s his baby because he’s the only person I was with the whole time after my ex. He says he’s not going to do anything until he knows the baby is his then he’ll step up. I always let him know when the appointments are because he wanted to know and he says he’ll go but he never shows up the day of the appointment. He also keeps saying if I keep the baby from him if the baby is his I’m the most horrible person there is. The thing is I keep telling him and agreeing with him I want this to be civil and it’ll be a 50/50 parentship. He keeps trying to start arguments whenever we try to talk as he’ll ask random questions like, how many guys have you been with since we broke up? And when I said 0 and asked him he told me he’s been with so many girls. He’s so worried about what I’m doing but he can do whatever and call me a “pole hopper” just a lot of drama that happens when we try to talk this whole thing out. He then says he’ll be the only one supporting the baby if the baby is his because I don’t have a good paying job at the moment. The thing is he doesn’t realize I spend all that money getting ready for the baby and constantly looking for a better job with benefits so the baby will have insurance. I just feel like nothing I do is good enough for him even after we separated and it’s tough. My family is amazing with giving me support as well as his mom. I just want to know if any of you have any tips to not let someone get to you when you trying your best. Thank you all in advance and thank you for letting me rant quite a bit❤️