Getting married

Ok, posted this in another group and have just gotten no feedback. So I figured I’d try you ladies.

Ok, so, we talked about doing a December wedding. I’d be around 24 weeks when we’d be looking at date wise. Would you ladies recommend doing a small family only ceremony now while pregnant? OR wait until after the baby and do an official ceremony once I can wear a dress better? I don’t care about the size of the ceremony, I just know I’ve dreamed of my wedding portraits for quite a while. If we waited I’d still want to do something courthouse so it will make the birth certificate process easier and such.

I’m just very torn. Is it selfish of me to want to wait just so I can possibly fit into a dress better?